Assalamu'alaikum
warahmatullahi wabarakatuh!
I
know I just uploaded a post yesterday, but because I am too free at
the moment, I'm writing another one right now. As I have been telling
your guys in the previous post, since the semester break started a
month ago, I didn't have a proper holiday as most of my time were
spent on various events and cadet activities. So this time, I am
going to share with you about one of the cadet activities that I have
attended during the early semester break.
On
11th
May 2015 to 15th
May 2015, I have been attending a horse riding course along with my
other cadet skots. It was a 5 day long course but we learnt and
experienced a lot of stuffs. I have never riden a horse before so I
was quite nervous about this horse riding course. Seriously. The
course was held in one of the Royal Brunei Army camp's saddle club.
On
the first day, we had a few lectures about the type of the horses
available and what should we expect during the whole 5 days course. I
gained new knowledge and it was amazing. I started feel excitement
buzzing through my veins. I missed some parts of the lectures though
as I was asked to go to the Rimba camp for another briefing together
with three of my other skots. But when we came back to the saddle
club, we found that the others were still in the lecture room and
that we didn't miss much.
That
first day, we were divided into 4 groups and each group was then
assigned to a horse, supervised by a coach. Our coach proceeded to
show us how to take the horse out of the stable in the most safest
way. We were then taught on how to ready the horse for riding, in
which we had to groom him first, and make sure that the saddlery was
put on the horse's back in a right way. We were also showed on how to
clean the stable.
Once
we have carefully tacked the saddlery on top of the horse, we
proceeded to the field together with the horse that has been assigned
to us and one by one, each of us, with the help of the our couch, we
hopped on the horse. It was my first time so I was a bit scared.
Plus, the horse was big and tall. Major is the name of the horse. A
very strong name, don't you think? On that first day, all we did was
got on the horse and walked a round around the field guided by our
coach and that was it. Basically, that was just the introduction and
to give us the feel on how it feels like to be on top of a horse as
well as to overcome our nervousness.
The
next day, we were again divided into groups. Each group has three
members. I was with Amal and Syikin and our horse was Major. Yes,
Major. It seemed like Major and I were meant for each other. LOL! So
that morning, we started off the day by cleaning the stable. The
place was so smelly that we had to wear face mask and trust me, you
could still smell the shits through the mask. Then, as what we have
been thought the day before, we groomed Major and put on the saddlery
on his back. Major was kinda in a bad mood that morning and he
refused to the let us groom him. He didn't even let us to brush off
the dirts under his legs. Once, we have secured the saddlery onto his
back, we got back in to the class to have breakfast. And when we
finished, Amal, Syikin and I quickly went to see Major and were
surprised to see a big pile of shits next to where Major was
standing. Hahaha XD and we were like, "Ohhh that is why Major
was in a bad mood. He was having a stomachache" XD
Once
everything was ready, I grabbed the rope that was attached to Major's
neck and carefully guided him to the riding field. I was the first
to get on his back that day. Unlike the day before, that day, we
didn't have a coach to guide us while we walked the horse around the
field. Coach said, the main ingredient in riding a horse is to be
confident because horses have the special ability in which they can
sense the riders emotion. In other words, they know if the rider on
their back is feeling nervous or afraid. Horses are naughty
creatures, according to what was told to us. Some horses, if they
sense that the rider on their back is feeling scared, they would
scared them even more.
To
be honest, when I was up there, I was more than just nervous. Because
I have fear of height, all I could think of when I was on Major's
back was "I am going to fall. This is too high. I'm going to
fall". However, after a few minutes walking with Major around
the field, I slowly gained my confidence and became less afraid. By
the end of the day, I was totally enjoying myself and was sad when I
was told that the time was over and I needed to hop down.
That
day, after finished the riding practical, we took the horses out of
the field, untacked all the saddlery off their body and sprayed them
with water. Major was looking so blessed and relieved when the water
hit his giant body and I could see that he really liked it. I guess,
being under the sun for so long had got him hot and uncomfortable. I
felt bad for him. We let the horses rest for the rest of the day and
got back into the classroom for another lectures.
On
the third day, again we started off the day with cleaning the stable
after taking out the horses. As Major's rider, I was incharge of his
stable. Thank God, his stable was not that messy as compared with the
others. Good boy, Major.
Then,
as usual, we groomed Major and put on the saddlery on top of his
back. Major still didn't let us to brush the dirts off his shoes. He
didn't listen everytime we asked him to lift up his legs. He was
totally ignoring us. It seemed like he still hadn't open up to us
yet. I wondered why didn't he like us. When I looked around, I could
see that the others didn't have much trouble with their horses. Just
right next to us, Amoy and Jannah were having a good time grooming
their horse named Rosilla. Rosilla listened to everything she was
asked to. I couldn't help it but to feel jealous and when no one was
listening, I asked Major, "Why can't you like me?" and of
course, he ignored me.
That
day, we continued the basic riding practical. We started by walking
the horse around the field as usual, as a warm up for the horses.
Then when, everyone was ready, we started to trot with the horses.
Trotting seems easy when I watched the others doing it but when it
was my turn, I was screaming the whole time! It was just baby steps
running but I still felt like as if Major was going to throw me off
his back. Coach said that it was just my imagination and that I was
not even going to fall but the fact is I almost fell! I would already
be on the ground if it weren't for this one coach who grabbed my leg
and got me stable on top of Major again. At that time, I already lost
my confidence and I know horse riding is definitely not my thing.
After
riding and untacking the saddlery off Major, we sprayed him with
water. Major was sweating all over his giant body and again, I felt
bad for him because earlier we were told that trotting is always
exhausting for the horses because it is not their natural movement
and when they trot their movement is actually restricted. They were
trained heavily before they were able to trot.
The
next day, the first group to ride the horses got to challenge musical
ride, while trotting, of course. It was fun to watch. Everyone did
well and I couldn't imagine how would I manage it if I were riding
that time. I was in the third group. Yesh, the weakest group. LOL!
Honestly, I was going to avoid riding that day but one of the coach
caught me and in the end I was still forced to ride. What happened
the day before when I was almost thrown off Major's back kept
haunting me. And I was really scared that the same thing would
happened again. Before we started, I put my hand on top of Major's
head, in between of his two fluffy ears. Coach said, if we do that,
we will be able to connect to the horse. So I tried it and whispered,
"Major, I know you don't like me but I really like you and I
trust you so please, trust me". I'm not sure if he understand
that but for a second there, I thought I heard Major talked to me –
in his language of course – as if he was saying that I could count
on him.
I
got on top of Major, still feeling nervous. But I trusted him. And
when the coach ordered to trot on, Major started to trot and I was
panicking because I seriously felt as if I was going to fall. I
pulled on the reins and Major slowed down. In the end of the day, I
still wasn't able to trot properly but at least I didn't fall which
was already enough for me to feel grateful.
The
next day, which was the forth day, was our last chance to ride on our
horses because on the last day we would all be busy with the closing
ceremony. That morning, I arrived early and started cleaning the
stable after taking Major out. I had no idea why but something was
different with Major that day. Usually, he would hissed everytime I
tried to brush his body and hair, but that day he was quite obedient.
He even lifted up his legs when we asked him too. I'm not sure but I
think he knew that it was our last day. I still wasn't able to trot
properly like the others but I felt blessed because Major seemed to
understand me quite well that day. He didn't act like he usually act.
He was being sweet and cute. We gave him a lot of carrots too and I
think we fed him too much that he fell asleep in the field with me
still on his back. Everyone was laughing at us when he did that. I
had to pat his side to wake him up.
On
15th May 2015, it was finally our last day. We were very
busy preparing for the closing ceremony that we didn't have time to
clean the stable nor taking care of the horses. The ceremony started
around 9 that morning and ended around 12 noon. It was a very messed
up event but alhamdulillah we managed to wrap it up wonderfully and
even got complimented.
It
was only a five days course but we learnt a lot. I also managed to
overcome my fears... a bit. Eventhough I still can't do trotting
properly, at least I have experience in riding a horse and the other
basic things like tacking and untacking the saddlery, grooming and
cleaning the stable. And most importantly is that we had created a
special bond with our horses. In my case, I know Major didn't like me
at all at first but as days went by, I could feel that me and Major
were getting closer and closer and he seemed to start accepting me. I
don't feel the five days was enough but there was nothing we could
do.
That
day before we parted, I promised Major that I will definitely come
back with a lot of carrots!\
And we actually did! Thanks to my skots who offered me to go with them to visit saddle club on a Friday. On the way, we bought a lot of carrots and together we went there. When we arrived, we found out that the horses were not in the stable. They were let loose wandering around in the field. Major was put in a field that was far away from the saddle club so I couldn't meet him right away. I watched as my other skots fed their horses and felt really jealous. That was when I realized that I really missed Major.
Once my skots satisfied having a reunion with their horses, we went to the field where Major was put. I was so excited. There were a lot of horses there and I couldn't see Major anywhere. I almost cried but then I saw him! He was eating some grasses somewhere at the other side of the field. I called out for him. I thought he wouldn't hear me because he was so far away but to my happiness, he suddenly turned to me and walked to where I was standing.
He remembers me! And that is enough for me. I nearly cried. I fed him all the carrots I had. That day was a very unforgettable day for me. In shaa Allah, one day, I will be visiting him again.
Thanks for the memories, Major.
Thanks, PKT.
Alhamdulillah. Thank you, Allah.
- Miki Ariake
PS: Please ignore all the spelling or grammar errors, because I'm too lazy to check and correct! :D